When God created the heavens and the earth, He gave
man
dominion over everything living upon the earth.
When He created
woman, He took one of Adam's ribs and built a companion
and
helpmate for Adam. When He banished them from Eden,
God's
instructions to Adam and Eve were quite clear: she would
bear her
children in pain, and he would be her lord and master;
she would be
the nurturer, and he would be the bread earner.
Men and women
have followed these tenets for thousands of years, with
the result
that women became "exploited as property to be bought
and sold, as
goods to be bargained and bartered, since biblical times."
This patriarchal system, with man as the dominant
head of the
household, is the basis for most relationships in America
today.
Women are no longer considered to be slaves to their
mates, to be
bought and sold; but, the traditional role of nurturer
and mother
puts women in the unique position of remaining subservient.
Women's "economic dependence and their subjugation to
men and the
male ordained values of profit, power, and patriarchy
. . . further
perpetuates their dependence." Ruth Sidel quotes
R. Emerson
Dobash and Russell Dobash, authors of Violence Against
Wives, in
her book, Women & Children Last: The Plight of Poor
Women in
Affluent America. The Dobashes write that the subordination
of
females and their subjection to male authority and control
have
"been institutionalized in the structure of the patriarchal
family
and is supported by the economic and political institutions
and by
a belief system, including a religious one, that makes
such
relationships seem natural, morally just, and sacred."
These beliefs are intrinsic to the way men and
women interact
with each other in personal relationships, in the workplace,
and in
the way they raise their children. Women are conditioned
from
birth by their parents and society to believe that their
prime
function in life is to be a caregiver. For example,
girls play
house while boys play sports, and girls are encouraged
to study the
liberal arts while boys study the sciences. Women
grow old caring
for others--for children, men, elderly parents, grandchildren,
friends, and sometimes distant relatives. They
spend most of
their time performing non-productive, or unpaid, domestic
work, and
they have been "socialized to accept these tasks as a
natural and
central component of their identity." Even when
women are
required by necessity to work outside the home, the prime
responsibility of caring for the children and the house
remains
firmly planted on the their shoulders.
Women in America--especially those from poor socio-economic
backgrounds--have also been inculcated with the belief
that men
will take care of them, that they will become stigmatized
if they
do not maintain an ongoing relationship with a man, and
"that they
do not really need to prepare themselves to be fully
independent."
In addition, Sidel says that "the vast majority of American
women,
despite what the media would have us believe, still define
themselves by the men they marry and by the children
they bear."
These ingrained attitudes have a direct bearing
on the
increased number of poor women in this country, the fastest
growing
segment within the poor population. Lucy Komisar,
author of Down
and Out in The USA: A History of Public Welfare, states
that
"two-thirds of the people in poverty and virtually all
the adults
on AFDC are women." She adds that women are forced
into poverty
not only by the same reasons men are, but by "social
mores and job
discrimination that force into poverty or dependency
most women who
do not have men to support them."
An examination of poor people in America reveals
that poverty
can be attributed to:
Ruth Sidel states that "the most serious result
of the Reagan
administration's economic policies . . . has been the
legitimization of the negative attitudes held by many
Americans
toward the poor." In addition, she says that because
of Reagan's
"ability to express the point of view, in a mild, amiable
tone of
voice, that the poor are poor primarily because of their
own
shortcomings has . . . permitted significant numbers
of Americans
to move their prejudices from the back of their consciousness
to
the forefront."
The "feminization of poverty," a term coined by
sociologist
Diana Pearce, has been precipitated over the past twenty
years by
the weakening of the traditional nuclear family;
the
rapid growth of female headed families; the continuing
existence of a dual labor market that actively
discriminates against female workers; a welfare
system
that seeks to maintain its recipients below the
poverty
line; the time-consuming yet unpaid domestic
responsibilities of women, particularly child
care; and
an administration in power in Washington that
is
systematically dismantling or reducing funds for
programs
that serve those who are most in need.
The results of this feminization of poverty are
seen in the
increased numbers of women being victimized throughout
all aspects
of society. Sister Maria Riley, author of Economic
Justice for
Women, states that "the cumulative impact of poverty
on women and
those dependent upon women, the young and the elderly,
is
staggering." For example, 52 percent of the female
population is
in the labor force; two-thirds of these women are single,
widowed,
divorced or must work to keep their family above the
poverty level;
one family in three families headed by a woman is poor;
and 93
percent of all welfare recipients are women and those
dependent
upon women. In addition, with one out of every
two marriages in
the United States now ending in divorce, women are finding
themselves unprepared to adequately provide for themselves
and
their children because of their psychological and physical
dependence on men and their lack of preparation to compete
in the
labor market. Inge Holloway and Maxine Forman,
authors of
Obstacles to Economic Self-sufficiency, state that "a
lifetime of
limited educational and employment opportunities coupled
with
childbearing responsibilities leaves a woman with fewer
choices. . . ."
The problems women face when they find themselves
on the low
end of the economic scale can be overwhelming.
"Not being able to
consume in a society that worships material goods can
be extremely
debilitating and can even cause a form of depression."
They can
be overcome by numerous economic problems when illness
strikes
either themselves or their dependents, and being unable
to provide
adequate food exacerbates their situation even more.
Women are being barraged by restrictions in the
welfare
system, and must cope with having to live in environments
filled
with substandard housing, vermin, and crime. They
are constantly
faced with the very real possibility of joining the millions
of
homeless people already living on the streets and in
welfare hotels
across America today. In addition, women must physically
protect
themselves in dangerous situations, either from ex-husbands,
boyfriends, or total strangers, while at the same time
try to
protect their children from the devastating effects of
drugs,
crime, AIDS, poverty, and teen-age pregnancy. Finally,
one of the
most important impacts felt by poor women is the loss
of a visible
and reliable male role model for their children.
The total effect of this cumulative deprivation
causes women
to suffer from a "Poverty Mentality," the conscious or
unconscious
decision to live an unfulfilled life--financially, emotionally,
creatively, or physically. Tessa Albert Warschaw
says that women
"may feel financially strapped, emotionally undernourished,
frustrated in their careers--or powerless to choose and
change in
one or all three of these areas." In order to break
out of this
Poverty Mentality, women must begin to take positive
steps to
change their thought processes and stop envisioning themselves
as
victims of men and society.
Despite great strides in the past thirty years toward
greater
equality among the sexes, women still find themselves
being
victimized by a male dominated society. The Equal
Rights
Amendment, a proposed Constitutional amendment that has
failed to
date to pass numerous Congressional votes, says simply:
Section 1. Equality of rights under the law
shall not be
denied or abridged by the United States or by any state
on account
of sex.
Section 2. The Congress shall have the power
to enforce by
appropriate legislation the provisions of this article.
Section 3. This amendment shall take effect
two years after
the date of ratification.
Cassandra Johnson, author of The Economic Necessity
for the
E.R.A., believes that the three parts of The Equal Rights
Amendment
will "do all that is necessary to right the complete
wrong that is
the injustice of inequality our society practices against
women."
People, according to Ruth Sidel, must recognize
that "society
must provide a humane environment in which people can
live, work,
thrive, and raise their children. The old supports
of family and
community must be replaced by some societal supports."
She
further states that a policy that "puts women and children
first
will lead eventually to a more humane society policy
for all
Americans." Sidel proposes that three areas of
reform are "the
arena of work; universal entitlements specifically connected
to the
lives of families, particularly those with young children;
and the
welfare system."
Until we change our attitudes for "our special responsibility
as a society toward mothers and children," society as
a whole
will continue to suffer and the victimization of women
will
flourish unabated. If we do not, women might again
become
"exploited as property to be bought and sold, as goods
to be
bargained and bartered. . . ."