Windsong
First edition, copyright 1991; Thanksgiving Day, 2002
Chapter 2
School days and long ways
Florida. Mom had lots of relatives there, and still
does. Most of her eight brothers and sisters and their families centered
in the small community of Citrus Park, then northwest of Tampa. Tampa
now has a toll road exit in this then lazy community. Who's who? Mom
has only one full brother, Warren Muncey, who I've never met. Her mother
died of toxemia when mom was six years old. I've always known that
hurt mom alot. She talks about her mother so fondly and nicely. I
sure home to meet some of these folks like her someday.
Grandpa remarried some time later and had seven more children; John, Jim,
Donald, Peggy, Marie, Raymond, and Bill. Grandpa foamed with character.
He reminds me of Paul, the apostle, I've been studying the last three
weeks (July 1980). His high, squeeky voice, in my day at least, rang
the room. He still knows how to tell a grandson what to do!
Mark, my brother, was about four years old when Grandpa teased him one day.
Exasperated Mark told Mon, "tell that boy to leave me alone." Grandpa
Muncey, you see, stood about five feet tall and made up in spirit what he
lacked in height. He always made his fingers look like one was cut
off by folding one back in his hand. I think he was proud that he could
pull off this trick better than anyone else. You see, he was missing
the end of one of his fingers, lost to a table saw. He didn't seem
to care at all. It added to his joke.
Later, in December 1969 or January 1970, at age 74, he held his blind son,
John, shingle the roof of their house. Grandpa fell, and would have
fallen off the roof but John got a ladder and held him until the ambulance
came. He died within a few days. That's the kind of man Grandpa
Muncey was, one who wouldn't quit until the end.
The rest of Mom's family? Grandma Muncey, the mother of seven, is still
alive here in 1984 (I let this manuscript rest for a few years didn't I?).
She's the kind of Grandma you'd expect a grandma to be; a pleasant,
cheerful person. The kind of person who can both take care of apple
pies and stubbed toes. Uncle John, who you'll hear more about, shot
a staple into a pop bottle at age ten, as the story goes. The staple
richoceted back and hit his eye, blinding him in one eye complete, and not
helping the other eye which lost much of its sight too.
Uncle Jim and Aunt Alma have ten children. They've lived in Citrus
Park, Florida forever, it seems. When I visited him while living in
Florida when I was in eighth grade, he advised me not to move around the
country like Mom and Dad continued to do . . . too expensive he said. He
recommended staying in one area and getting established. I guess I've
finally taken his advice, (1989 note) as I've returned to Arkansas and intend
to stay here forever! (2002: so much for that theory! The Forest
Service paid me too well to not stay in Arkansas, I guess).
Uncle Donald and Aunt Barbara lived near us at several places, including
Citrus Park and southern California. I remember camping with them in
the high sierras. OK, maybe the low sierras. Seemed high to me!
Aunt Peggy and Uncle Donald also live in Citrus Park. Still do! They
have seven kids between them. I certainly don't remember all their
names.
Aunt Marie and Uncle Marshall's family and ours spend more time together
than the other families, and their kids are nearest my age. More stories
about them will come later.
Uncle Raymond and Aunt Betty Jo lived in several places including the Tampa
area, Yellville, and North Carolina, all near my parents at the times.
I don't know much about Uncle Bill or Uncle Warren. Since the first
draft, I've met Bill several times. He now owns land in north Georgia
where I've seen him. I've met Uncle Warren's daughter too.
Our home in Florida stands on piers, a modest white frame house as many in
Florida at the time. One hot, humid day even your fingers would stick
together. Philip wants to know just how hot Florida grows. So
I find a thermometer and lay it on the porch in the sun. I learn a
lesson I'll never forget from my earliest scientific experiment. Thermometers
and sunshine don't mix. The thermometer breaks. Mom reminded
me of another similar experiment. I tried to fry an egg on the front
steps, but I remember doing that in California a year later . . . maybe I
tried to duplicate my results.
In school I join the children marching in the locally famous "Gasparilla"
parade. We go to a local park to practice marching. It's fun
but I can barely keep up. Finally the big day arrives and we really
march in the real parade. All goes well until we arrive at the bridge.
I hadn't planned on this. Going over water on foot scares me
bad enough, but the holes in the grating make the water visible! Little
slots in the steel make me sure I can fall through into the water. I
see it! The parade moves on but I hesitate. Finally, I dash for
my life over to the other side. Ah! Safe again!
School starts, first grade. Mrs. Anderson, my first grade teacher,
will later teach one of my siblings (Nancy?). My parents worked hard
to have five children in the private Adventist school. I enjoy school,
but the big kids are monsterous.
Mom had taught me the alphabet forwards and backwards (really!), so I would
get a good start. Two things impressed my little brain, the familiar
row of green cards with the alphabet, and the tattletail box. "Mrs.
Alderman, Sherry has a nickel in her mouth". And, plonk, your name's
in the tattletale box. Your name in that square on the board seemed
like having to carry a big placard downtown saying, "I'm a tattletale!" to
use first graders. How horrible, avoid it like the plague.
One day, upon arriving home from school, everyone was in confusion.
What's happening? The yard spilled over with serious looks, hushed
tones, and a lot of bustling about. Grandma Hyatt grew sick in California.
I finally gathered that much. What should we do? We might
go out to see her. But that would mean moving. Before the sun
rose we hit the road. I would not return east again for five years.
A day or two later found us traveling by night thorough Louisiana. At
three in the morning, only Dad and I have our eyes open as we roll. We
peered thorough the fog; I had too much excitement to sleep. "California
here I come, right back where I started from". "California or bust".
More than once we saw someon along the road with that sign changed
to "California or busted". Eleven of us packed, quite literally, a
1938 Chevy, two short of the Grapes of Wrath thirteen: Dad, Mom, Granma Kirk,
Betty, Richie, Robert, Ellen, Philip, Gregory, Dorothy, and our pet dog,
Mingtoi. Mom calls it a hard trip, with everyone sick at their stomachs.
She remembers stopping "somewhere in Texas" to hang our cloths on a
fence to dry. Fortunately I don't remember that aspect of the trip.
Dorothy Joan, by the way, had joined us in Florida. I vaguely recall
wiating for ther to come home from the hospital. As usual, I remember
the wait better than the event.