Why a book about me? Not because I've done anything
great. Sure I've traveled widely but not highly, coast to coast but
not border to border, I've been from the lowest in Death Valley to the highest
on Mt. Whitney. The real reason is because i don't know much about my dad,
Richard Hyatt. And I've always wanted to. But nobody tells me
much. I guess they never had the time.
Specifically, by the above paragraph (written in 1991 edition) I mean I don't
know much about my father's childhood. He didn't talk about it much.
What was it like for him to grow up? What was his world like?
What did his brothers and sister like to do? What did he dream?
What would he have told me, had we both taken the time?
That's typical of this little world you know. I'm guilty too. I
spend all my time on things that are either productive or interesting. That
usually leaves out helping people. I'm trying to change that, as I
approach retirement.
For my first three (mom says four) years I lived in sunny Loma Linda, California.
Ever since I saw the hospital I was born in and was told, "Ellen White
saw that hospital in a vision before it was built", I figured she might have
seen it when I was in it.
I only recall one event of this time, crossing "the stack". The stack
is a pile of early freeways where four levels cross, a neat thing for a little
kid. Today, such interchanges exist in many cities, but in the 1950's
its unique. So much for California. I could tell what I saw later,
and was told. But I'll save that for later memories. What I don't
remember probably wasn't significants anyway, right?
I don't know why we moved to Florida when I was about three (four?). This
move must not count either because I don't remember it. Maybe I slept
through it. I would see the Alamo in San Antonio, Texas. Mom
says it was 1956. My hero, Davy Crockett, fought and died there. After
twenty years I would forget the visit completely. In Florida we lived
in a long white house with bamboo across the street. I must have spent
my time looking for shoe polish under the bathroom sink, because that's all
I can think of. I would remember the Seventh-day Adventist Church
we attended when we moved back to Florida in 1965/1966.
In several months we moved to Hendersonville, North Carolina. Mom
and dad bought a two story house. I have a picture of this house taken
in 1972 with my sister and her husband, Betty and Pete Nunez, out in front.
Now here we go; the memorys flourish here! The frame had a steep
room, and probably had a nice attic. The front porch ran most of the
length, with the door leading into the living room downstairs. Off
to the left a short hall led to the kitchen, and next to the hall was a stairway.
I know there was another room to the left, but can't recall what was
in it. I do recall the top of the stairs had a hall leading back parallel
to the stairs to my bedroom. I say "my" bedroom, but I probably shared
it with Richie, Robert, and Greg. We hang clothes on the line out back.
The big house seems like the living room always had a Christmas tree. Kids
like things like that. To me, the tree will always stand there! It
also seems like winter lasted the two years we lived there, with only a brief
summer. Either that, or I don't recall the details. We lived
here until the winter before I started school. The fondest memory I
have is of dad putting me on his shoulders and taking me up to bed at night.
I loved this fun, up the stairs, around the corner, down the hall to
my bed.
And the kitchen! Why do I remember it? Once I recall sitting
in a chair watching the clock on the stove. A few minutes before I'd
picked up the phone and dialed some nice lady. We had a great conversation
until I got caught! Christmas brought my borther's electric train,
the kind that has three rails and sparked if I laid a nail across the track.
What fun! What fussing!
Outside we own 10 acres*, partly wooded, partly garden. In summer we'd
go out in the garden to pull up weeds. In fact, weeds are the only
thing I ever remember harvesting. Once when I got hot I walked over
to the barn. One grand day we'd tie a rope to the barn and to the car
and pull the barn to the ground. Snow brought sledding, but so did
the sawdust pile by the creek, which is better for sledding without snow. *Ellen tells me its 13 acres, not 10.
Then there is church. Like I said, its always winter, so its not surprising
we found the car frozen to the ground one morning. We chopped the ice
around the tires with shovels as the engine warmed up. I don't recall
the Sabbath School teacher, the classroom, or even the sanctuary . . . well,
maybe just barely. But I did love to slide down the banister out front.
I wore out at least one pair of pants on it. Sliding kids had
worn the concrete banister smooth.
I loved this place. You know, it was home. I don't know
why, but if I had to choose just one home, this would be it. We had
a house and ten acres and we loved it. Our family was happy to be here,
Dad, Mom, Betty, Richie, Robert, Ellen, myself, and Greg from oldest to youngest.
Only I left out the oldest one. My great grandmother, Dora Kirk,
had care of Greg and myself during the school day because mom taught at the
church school. Mom says she felt like she was deserting Greg and I,
but I remember more of mom than of Grandma Kirk. I'll always remember
Grandma Kirk as a kind little lady who couldn't see or hear well, but who
always had a malt ball for her great grandson.
I guess the winter of 1957-58 must have been a rough one. The cold
put a chill on dad's carpentry job. The money ran out, no house payment
for a month or two and we moved to Florida. Mom and Dad always were
to wish they had never moved. After twelve years they would settle
down in North Carolina again, but they would leave me in Arkansas.
I'm amazed, writing this for the new edition, that I can't remember many
more details. Each paragraph above, with a mental picture from North
Carolina, stands alone almost. Oh, I can recall some details of the
kitchen, table, and chairs were I sat for eternity watching the clock move
after making a phone call. I remember family, fussing, a huge Christmas
tree, and couches and chairs in the living room. But most North Carolina
memories from this time period are like MPEG videos of computers today. They
exist as short fragments of video and sound in my memory banks.
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